Do you have a teenager who
spends every possible moment of his or her day on a social network? Are you
having serious problems communicating with him or her? Perhaps he or she is
excluding family and friends. Is your teenager acting secretive, fighting or screaming at
everyone?
Does your teenager walk away
from everything, even homework or other things that are extremely important and
hide in his or her room with a computer or smart phone? Perhaps the problem has
become such that you cannot converse without having an argument or winding up
with him or her in a veil of tears. Are you wringing your hands and reduced to
tears, as well?
Your teenager may be addicted
to social
networking.
The socialmediaexaminer.com asks, “Are
you addicted to Facebook or Twitter? As social
media continues to grow, details are starting to surface about people’s behaviors
and consumption of information in the social space.”
Communication with others is
normally a good thing. Knowing how to use a social networking device and social
networking site properly appear appropriate, as well as effective. This type of
communication seems almost vital to human inter-action and survival in our era,
but the tendency towards social network addiction is growing. That may not be a
good thing.
Much like teenage problems
related to the introduction of the telephone years ago, teenage addiction to
social networking creates friction between teenagers and parents. Do you recall
arguing with your parents about how much time you could spend on the telephone?
The advent of the computer resulted in the same kinds of problems; so did the
introduction of cell phones.
Who would have thought that
grandparents, parents, teens, children and others would now become addicted to
social networking?
Maybe you are a person who is
hooked on social networking, too.
Try walking away from your
smart phone and social network system for a few days and see if you feel a
sense of loss, miss the contact with others or have social network cravings. Do
you feel lost and lonely, frustrated or angry, when you do not have access to
your social media website or smart phone? How do you feel when your Internet
connection goes down and you cannot do social networking that day? Are you
totally devastated when you cannot access family or friends on your social
network?
Does panic set it?
Perhaps you are like many
others. You have grown accustomed to being able to communicate electronically
with your friends and family, at any time, from almost any place. You have
access to an exciting new tool and you are becoming addicted to using it.
The bottom line becomes that of
still being able to function without it. Are you addicted to social
networking?
Globally, social network
addiction is a growing problem. For almost anyone, there is a tremendous degree
of fascination with social networking because it works. It is relatively new
and unique. The cost of social networking is relatively low and it is
affordable.
Even children quickly become
addicted to social networking. Parents, in an effort to teach their children
everything they possibly can, open the new horizons of possibility for them,
not realizing that without setting some limitations, social networking may
become a priority to them. Social networking becomes the new fix, the high of
the day and the topic of conversation.
One might ask how communication
devices like smart phones or a computer-based system like social networking
could affect communication so adversely.
Identifying the symptoms and
being aware of social networking addiction can help resolve the communication
problem and restore peace in your home. Remember that computers and smart
phones are only tools. How they are used is important. Social networking
etiquette is vital.
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